Monday, January 26, 2009

Follow our new blog

I have decided to retire our adoption blog in favor of a blog documenting our life as a blended family. Thank you for following the Groff Adoption story.

Join us for our new journey at http://groffhappenings.blogspot.com

Thursday, January 22, 2009

Baptism






We got Pearl baptised on Sunday. She was quiet until the water went on her forehead. Otherwise it was a great day to spend with family and friends.

Saturday, January 17, 2009

Partaaaaaay!



















Well, we had a great first birthday and welcome home celebration. About 100 people showed up. It was great to have everyone meet Pearl. She was in a great mood even though she was passed around quite a lot! Even without a nap, Pearl's calm demeanor shined through. Thank you everyone for joining our celebration.

Tuesday, January 13, 2009

Happy Birthday Pearl!





































Pearl is one today. On the agenda is cupcakes after dinner. Carli picked the "honking" candle. Once Pearl got the hang of it, she clearly liked her cupcake! The big celebration is this Saturday when approximately 150 people will celebrate Pearl's birthday and arrival!

More pictures





























It is amazing how quickly Pearl has learned English. It has only been one month and she understands "no" and when someone says bye she waves. Also, if I say let's go, she will walk to the door. And, if someone says "yeah Pearl" she will clap.

Sunday, January 11, 2009

New pics

Pearl is very curious and loves to investigate. Except for nap and bedtime, she really is a very happy kid. Naptime has not improved even though we have tried music, white noise and the Ferber method. I even have moved to one nap a day. To no avail, she spends the entire time screaming. The one good thing is that she is sooo tired by the end of the day, going to bed only includes about 5 minutes of screaming!

Pearl turns one on Tuesday and I will post some birthday pictures.










Tuesday, January 6, 2009

More pictures


Pearl is definitely an eater! She will eat anything you put in front of her. Sleep continues to elude us, though. Last night we tried having classical music on in her room. It didn't seem to bother her so maybe that is the "white noise" she needs. We are going to keep trying different things until we find the magic potion!








Friday, January 2, 2009

Wednesday, December 31, 2008

Test results

We went to the doctor today to get Pearl's test results. Everything came back negative: TB, Hepatitis B and C, lead and blood count. Pearl is as healthy as could be.

Tonight, Carli has decided we are having a family game night for New Year's eve. My invitation told me to arrive at 7:12 p.m. It should be a wild and crazy night.

Happy New Year!

Tuesday, December 30, 2008

Doctor visit

We had our wellness checkup today and fun it was not! Pearl had two shots, a TB test (another needle), blood drawn (yes, another needle) and a urine sample (don't even ask how that is done on an infant!) Fortunately, she recovered quickly. Tomorrow she goes back to "read" the TB test and give a stool sample to check for parasites.

She weighs 17 lbs. 3 oz., her height is 27 1/2 inches and her head is 17 1/2 inches. She is on the 5th percentile for both height and weight. She loves to eat so I am sure we can improve those numbers.

Other than that, Pearl seems to be getting used to her surroundings a little better. But naps and bedtime still are big challenges. She likes the kids' club at the gym and Carli carts her around like the proud big sister.

Sunday, December 28, 2008

Amazing things about Vietnam

I saw and experienced some amazing things in Vietnam that I want to share.

1. The people are amazingly friendly. People would constantly stop us on the street and say hello and smile. One day we stopped in an adidas store. The staff immediately came to us. Carli gave the one salesgirl a kiss on the cheek. After that they shared a snack they were having (yes on the sales floor) of an apple-type fruit dipped in a chili and salt combination. It was an interesting mix of flavors. As we left, they gave us the rest of the fruit to take with us. In the restaurants, they would take Pearl immediately and amuse her while we ate.

2. The street food was very interesting and usually smelled good, although I was never brave enough to try anything. The one thing that I will never forget is seeing cooked whole dog at a food stand. Basically it was a whole dog with no hair and charred brown. Even the tail was still there!

3. It is a scooter nation. There are scooters and motorcycles everywhere. It is amazing what they are able to carry on their scooters, too.

4. The noise is overwhelming. Our streets are so quiet in comparison. The drivers honk constantly. The rules of the road are that there are no rules! Chaos reigns.

5. It is dirty and dusty. HaNoi is a crowded, busy city and cleanliness is not a top priority (or their tolerance of dirt is more than mine). But you adjust and make do.

6. Life is lived on the streets. Everyone is on display and lives on the sidewalks. Street cafes consist of a small plastic table and tiny plastic stools for seats and waala...a business is born. People are hunched everywhere. Storefronts are part of people's homes and you can see them eating dinner and watching TV while "minding" the store. Women would walk miles everyday with the goods the had to sell hanging from baskets balanced on their shoulders.

7. Highlands Coffee was the best. Not only was it the best but the staff was friendly and attentive. After our first visit, they remembered us and once when I visited without Eric and the kids, the staff immediately wanted to know where they were. The strong Vietnamese coffee was good too!

8. People work hard. Not only do they work six days a week, but without our modern conveniences, the work is just plain more difficult.

9. 10 minutes outside of the city and you are in rice paddies. It is green, mountainous and beautiful. It appears to be a pretty simple life outside the city.

HaNoi is an amazing place. It is all I expected and more. I cannot wait to return and see more of the country to the south. But it is good to be home for now.

Sisters in matching PJ's