Thursday, April 26, 2007

Home Study Appointment!

Don, our social worker called today. We have our home study scheduled for Monday, May 7th at 7 p.m. He said it will take a few hours. We also need to provide a blueprint of our home but otherwise he said to not get nervous about the home study.

We're off!

Wednesday, April 25, 2007

Social Worker Assignment!

We got our social worker assignment yesterday. This means that our home study can begin. The social worker has 10 days to make an appointment with us and then 30-60 days to complete the home study. Finally, PLAN then has two weeks to approve the home study. Essentially, the entire process could take three months but I really hope it goes faster than that because our I600 cannot be approved until they get a copy of the home study.

Friday, April 20, 2007

Embracing the Vietnamese culture

I decided we need to get more familiar with the Vietnamese culture before we travel to Vietnam. What better place to start than with the food?! So, last night I took Carli to dinner at a Vietnamese restaurant. She loved the food and couldn't stop eating. The server taught Carli how to make origami birds while we were there. At the end of the meal, Carli says "this food is delicious. Now can I go to Vietnam with you?"

Our plan is to leave her here so that we can focus on the new addition and limit her exposure to some health issues that Vietnam still grapples with such as Hepatitis.

Wednesday, April 18, 2007

Carli asks daily if today is the day we pick up her sister! There will not be a better big sister than Carli.

2 great books about Vietnam...

I have been reading lots about Vietnam and stumbled on two books worth talking about. They are both by Dana Sachs.

"The House on Dream Street" Part memoir and part travelogue, The House on Dream Street offers a compelling glimpse into Vietnam more than 20 years after the war. Author Dana Sachs foregoes the history lesson and instead takes us into the day-to-day lives of working-class people attempting to succeed in a fledgling capitalist economy. Captivated by the once-forbidden country during a visit in 1989, Sachs returned two years later, took a room with a young family, and set out to immerse herself in the culture.

"If You Lived Here" The story begins in Wilmington, N.C., where Xuan Mai has built a successful Asian grocery business in the more than 20 years since she fled Hanoi. Estranged from her family in Vietnam and reluctant to form new connections in America, Mai doesn't know what to make of Shelley Marino, an American customer who asks a lot of questions about Vietnam. It turns out that Shelley is trying to adopt a Vietnamese boy. However, Shelley's husband, Martin, who has two grown sons from a previous marriage, forces Shelley to choose between him and adopting, prompting Shelley to urge Mai to accompany her to Vietnam to complete the adoption. Once there, Mai discovers a land very different from the war-torn, impoverished country she left in the late 1970s. The novel, alternating Shelley's and Mai's narration, comes alive when the setting shifts to Vietnam, revealing the author's love for the rapidly changing country. Mai's reconciliation with her past is absorbing.

Monday, April 16, 2007

We will be staying in Hanoi and traveling 3 hours north to the orphanage when we travel to Vietnam in early fall. We are required to be there 3 weeks and look forward to doing some sightseeing while we are there.

What we have done so far...

So the first thing you will find surprising about adopting is the mounds (and I mean mounds) of paperwork. We have received endless binders with reading material and countless documents to get notarized and copied. So far we have completed:
  • Plan's initial application
  • Training class
  • More paperwork including references, background checks, medical checks and various other information
  • Immigration paperwork called the I600A. This form allows us to adopt a foreign born orphan. Once it is approved, we then get our appointment to get fingerprinted.
  • Lots of $$

Next comes the home study and then the completion of paperwork for Vietnam, which is called a dossier.


Welcome to our adoption journey!

Hi all. We are going to attempt to log our adoption journey. We have chosen to adopt from Vietnam through Plan Loving Adoptions.

We started our adoption journey last spring through the Department of Human Services (DHS). We were told there was a two to six month wait for a special needs child. After completing all the paperwork, training and background checks we learned that the wait could be up to six years. We all know that I am way to urgent to wait six years for a child and so we began our search for another option.

Eric's brother is adopted through Plan from Korea so we felt comfortable using Plan for our adoption journey.